Thursday, 31 December 2015

A Ugandan Christmas



Christmas Day


First of all I would like to start by wishing everyone a belated Merry Christmas! This blog post is very late but the sentiment still counts- I hope you had a wonderful time celebrating with your family and friends.

This year, Christmas was a very different experience for me. I am used to spending it with my family 
in wintry England with traditions such as sharing a big roast dinner, opening presents together and playing fun games.

Despite this difference, my Christmas in Uganda was memorable for this reason and it was so interesting to spend it in a different culture. I may not have experienced some of my usual traditions but I enjoyed making precious new Christmas memories.

In some ways, being away from home made me think more about the reason for the season because that is the most important thing: Jesus’ birth. This was a gift. Sometimes the commercialisation of Christmas in the western world can be overwhelming with the adverts for presents and food starting in late October and the frantic rush of the Christmas bargain shopping. Being distanced from this helped me to feel the ‘peace on earth’ of Christmas.

Here is what my Christmas time looked like:

Christmas contanta at KBC

Singing

On the Sunday before Christmas, Kate and I performed in the KBC Christmas contanta concert.  There’s been a big build up to it as the choir have been practising twice a week during November and December so it was the Christmas event I was most excited about. I loved it because it really helped me to feel ‘Christmassy.’  

We were pretty proud that we managed to remember the words to the songs in Luganda and even managed to sing a Luganda song we’d never heard before by following the words on the screen and practising our ‘smile and mouth the words’ look.

Everyone looked so smart as the ladies wore long red dresses with the men in suits and ties.  This made a contrast to our usual outfits when working on the projects so Kate and I made the most of dressing up. The stage also looked beautiful with the Christmas display at the front.

I’m so glad that we joined the choir- the contanta definitely put me in the Christmas mood!

Kate and I




Girls






Christmas contanta at Watoto Church



On Monday 21st, Olivia (the Smile volunteer who lives with us) took Kate and I to see the Christmas contanta at Watoto Church. Watoto is one of the biggest churches in Kampala and we had to get there three hours early to make sure we got a seat as it’s a popular event. It was very worth the wait as the performance was incredible. It was in the style of a theatre show with lots of light effects, costumes and dancing whilst retaining the clear message of the Christmas story.

Christmas Eve

We decided to host a Christmas Eve party at the Smile house with our friends from church and it turned out to be one of my favourite days because it made me appreciate the friends we have made here over the last three months even more. It was good fun to share food and chat in the garden. Thank you to everyone that came!















Christmas Day

On Christmas morning, we went to the church service at KBC after a delicious breakfast treat of Nutella pancakes. It was lovely to be able to wish our friends who hadn’t travelled to their village happy Christmas and it was a joyful service.



When we arrived back at the house, we ate Kate’s delicious Christmas snack foods she’d cooked (thank you Kate) and opened the presents we’d bought for each other and packages from home. Unfortunately, mine from home hadn’t arrived but thank you to my family for sending them- it’s the thought that counts and I can’t wait to open them when they arrive.

We enjoyed a delicious roast chicken dinner thank you to Kate’s amazing cooking and were all able to Skype our families. It made my day to be able to talk to mine and know I was still part of their Christmas day.





My favourite part of the day was mine and Lois’ adventure up the hill near our house to meet some of our friends. We didn’t have a clue how to get up there which resulted in us climbing up rocks and through the bush etc. so by the time we arrived, I was covered in thorns on my dress- a midi dress and sandals really aren’t suited for that kind of hike.

 It was so worth it when we got to the top- the sunset was absolutely stunning! It was kind that you see in photos with bright orange and yellow colours sinking below the skyline. I could have watched it for hours.

God's masterpiece

Boxing Day




It's not every day Boxing Day you get to go to the beach! We decided to make the most of spending the Christmas season in the sun by heading to Spinner Beach on the shores of Lake Victoria near Entebbe with a group of friends from church. It was a great day of relaxing and chatting ended by another beautiful sunset over the water.

Fun at the beach

Chips and chicken for lunch


I have really appreciated the time we have had off from our work on the Smile projects over the Christmas period as it has given us time to relax and enjoy spending more time with friends here.

It has been such a special and valuable experience to spend Christmas in a new country- I'm sure I'll remember Christmas 2015 for a long time to come!

Love from Stephanie x

Tuesday, 15 December 2015

Highlights from the past weeks

Children at FBC 

We have been very busy the past few weeks wrapping up our work at school and planning for the next months. Here are a few highlights:

Ruth Mother Care graduation-

On Saturday 28th was the Ruth Mother Care graduation for the children who are moving up from the top class of nursery section to P1. In the morning, we got up at 6' o clock to catch bodas to the school in order to help the teachers prepare food for lunch later and supervise the children. We helped Teacher Monica to roll out the chapattis and of course had a taste of them too!

It was so wonderful to see them performing the dances, dramas, songs and poems that we have seen them preparing and rehearsing for over the last few weeks. They performed the ballet we taught them too, which resulted in jokes that we should consider a career in choreography.

Once they had finished all their performances, it was time for the graduation ceremony. My heart bursts with pride for these children, they have worked so hard and really appreciate the education they receive at RMC. They looked so smart in their graduation gowns.

This is the last time we will see the children until term opens in the middle of February and we will miss them and the teachers so much over Christmas! I have come to love them so much in the time we have spent with them over the past few months.



Traditional Ugandan dances

Getting ready to perform the ballet

Joy to the World and nativity play


Top class graduation certificates


Graduation clothes and Alex's speech as the guest of honour

Celebrations after



Family Believer’s Church Christmas party- Friday 4th December

We are now beginning to wrap up our work on the Smile projects for the Christmas period. 

On Friday, we held a Christmas party for the children we work with at FBC in Nabulagala, which was lots of fun. Kate and I led songs and games with the younger children inside, whilst Lois, Gabit and Innocent did the same with the older children outside. To make it special for them, they used the balloons we took with us to do obstacle courses and other games.

Then, we performed the Christmas nativity to teach the children about the true meaning of Christmas. Lois was Mary, whilst Kate and I were shepherds and wise men.

To finish off, we did face painting for each of the children, cut a celebratory cake and gave out handmade Christmas cards. I was really touched to see that one of the families had put their children’s Christmas cards up on the wall in their home when we visited them a few days later.


Leading games with the younger children

Demonstrating how to play 'traffic lights'


Games with the older children outside- balloon fun!

Kate and I being shepherds in the nativity play
The children with their Christmas cards

The nativity play


Lois giving out cards

Reading Christmas cards to the children
Cutting the cake





Blessed Word Church Christmas party- Friday 11th December


We held another Christmas party at Blessed in partnership with the pastors and congregation there. There were 400 children who turned up at different points! That was amazing to see as we usually have 20 children at our weekly children's clubs at the church. They enjoyed singing and dancing competitions, cake, a meal of rice, small group teaching about the Christmas message and a film. 


Cutting the cake at BW


Gabit teaching the younger children

Enjoying a meal together


Closing up Nabulagala catch up class- Tuesday 12th December

Our catch up education class is now closed for 2015. We held our final session with them this week and have now reached up to the letter T in our teaching of the alphabet. I am so proud of the progress the children have made in learning the letters and how to write them.

Thanks to the generosity of a gift from a UK donor, we were able to buy the children who attend a Christmas present each. They loved their rucksacks, drink cups and exercise books!


Revising letters at catch up







Time at church

We have been continuing to spend a lot of time at KBC in the evenings and at weekends. Kate and I are looking forward to being part of the choir in the Christmas contanta performance. Our long red dresses have been made for us now and we are putting the finishing touches to the songs this week.
I particularly enjoyed going to a worship event at church a few weeks ago with different worship leaders as it was good to have an extended period of worship.


Decoration for the worship evening- so beautiful!


Good times with friends-

As well as our work on the projects, it has been fantastic  to spend time with friends over the past few weeks.

November 28th was the day I got to have two pizzas! That was probably more exciting than it should have been but when you haven’t had cheese in two months, I think my excitement was justified.
I was lucky enough to have the opportunity to have two friends from my home church, Debbie and Ruth, take me out for the day to a western style shopping centre called Garden City. It was so nice to spend time with them shopping and sharing food together- thank you so much for your generosity and kindness! I really appreciate it. It was also an interesting afternoon because when we were sitting in Café Javas, we saw the Pope’s entourage drive past!

In the evening after the youth service at church, I enjoyed going out to dinner with Innocent, Gabit, Anna, Reagan, Lois and Kate to Dominics pizza restaurant as a send off dinner for Anna. Anna was a gapper with Smile a few years ago and has been back in Uganda and travelling around different development projects across East Africa. She has spent the last two weeks living with us at the Smile house and we have loved having her here! It was lovely to have the opportunity to talk outside of the time we spend as a team on the Smile projects.


Out for pizza


This weekend I went to a sleepover for the youth at church, which was lots of fun and gave me a chance to get to know people better. There were several speakers, a bonfire and bonding sessions. I think it's the longest all nighter I've had!


Please pray for:


- Us gappers as we prepare for Christmas away from our families.

-For the recovery of Divine, one of the wonderful children we work with at FBC. We have been taking him to hospital to be treated for severe burns and he is slowly improving. 

-Safety travelling around the city, particularly coming back in the evenings from church.

-The final practices for the Christmas contanta Kate and I are singing in on Sunday.

Thursday, 26 November 2015

So what is Uganda really like?


Uganda : my first impressions

Taxi journey home
  
I have to admit that a lot has changed from my first day in Uganda to now having been here 2 months (can't believe it was a month when I first started writing this post!) So far I have written a lot about the Smile projects and the people we are working with. Since we have now had time to settle into being in Nansana in Kampala, I thought it would be a good time to reflect on my first impressions of Uganda.

I hope that it will give you an insight into what life is like here. We are loving 'the pearl of Africa' more and more and Kampala is fast becoming our second home.

My favourite thing about Uganda so far….

The people! From the Smile volunteers I am working with and friends at church to the children and teachers I have met, everyone is so friendly and welcoming. The children have stolen my heart and always make me smile because they just love being with and playing with you despite the language barrier. It is such a blessing to spend time with them and get to know each of them as individuals.

 I am so grateful to the people who have supported me to be here to share this time with them and I am trying to make the most of every day.
Good friends at church
Children at kids club at FBC


What I am finding the most challenging….
Sometimes I find it hard to be in such a big and busy city because I am used to living in a quieter neighbourhood but I’m getting used to it. It’s not that I don’t like cities, as I’ll happily go to London for the day at home, but the constant buzz was quite overwhelming at first. In the first week especially, I had to remind myself that Kampala was exactly where God was calling me to be and trained myself to see the beauty of the fact that God loves every person in the city.  
Last week we walked up a hill to see the city from above and it really was a beautiful view. 
Hill walk
  
Enjoying the view



At the top of the hill with our friend Georgie

It is a strange experience to be across the world in a different country when I have just finished school! I miss my family and friends at home and sometimes it seems like I’m living in a parallel world. However, I’ve learnt to rely on God for so much because I wouldn’t be able to do it on my own. Phillipians 4:13 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me' has been a verse that has really encouraged us and that we have prayed over ourselves.

I have started to settle in more now and am a lot more comfortable in the city. I now feel comfortable getting the hour taxi to church in the day if Lois and Kate are staying in and am grateful to friends who make sure I get home safely.
I am really appreciative of encouraging friends- it makes such a difference to hear from people back home.

What typical street in downtown Kampala looks like
It is also a real challenge to see the great needs amongst the families and children we are working with as we have seen a lot of poverty whilst we have been here, particularly during community outreach. This is something we have been praying about as a team and I have been drafting a post about it.

The weather…
The weather isn’t as hot as I was expecting all the time, which I’m glad of as we are very active. However, it’s still t-shirt weather and I have only had to pack a cardigan or jumper a few times so far. October and November are part of the rainy season, which explains why it has been cooler. When we reach the dry season, it will be a lot hotter!
When it rains, it really pours! 'Raining cats and dogs' doesn't really cover it- it's more like 'raining bears and elephants.'  Everyone runs for cover and rain is a legitimate excuse for being late to somewhere. In fact, if you power on through the rain to get somewhere, you’ll probably find you’re the only one and it the event will start late anyway. I've also found it interesting that it seems to rain at the same time on a particular day every week because I'm so used to the randomness of English rain.


Black skies and sun at the same time



The currency…

The exchange rate between Ugandan shillings and Great British Pounds is around 5000 shillings to £1 so it feels like you have a lot of money in your purse even when you only have 10p in English money. We are getting used to what is a reasonable amount to charge for different products. Sometimes people try to charge us more because they know we’re not locals e.g. for boda rides to school but once they see we know the correct price, they agree to it. 

The food…

Kate serving food at school

The food here is delicious! I am enjoying the local favourite of a chapatti, which is a flatbread of Indian origins, which has become very popular in Uganda. We have chapattis for lunch most days  at Ruth Mother Care School, where it is usually served with rice and beans.

Chaptti


Other foods we eat here:

-          Cassava, which is basically like a parsnip but not as sweet. Cassava chips are my favourite!

-          Yam  

-          Posho- it looks like mashed potato but is a flour paste thickened up. I haven't tried making it but a friend here has promised to teach me :).

-          Goat

-     Rolex- a chapatti filled with vegetables a chapati filled with eggs, onions, cabbage or kale, and tomatoes,

-          Matoke- a kind of stewed banana.

-          A small fried doughnut, which we eat with samosas for breakfast at school

-          The fruit here is amazing, especially papaya and mango!

-          African tea- I’m not the greatest fan of English tea and never drink it but I like the tea here because it’s much sweeter.
Making chapattis

Lois and Gabit making chapattis at our house

Anna and I rolling out chapattis on graduation day at school


When we made lasagne for our friends

Church and friends….


The outside of KBC


Kampala Baptist Church (or KBC as it is abbreviated to most of the time) is so friendly. We have made lots of friends and everyone always comes to greet us. As I am writing, this is the first evening I haven’t been at church for six days, which should give a good idea of how much I love being there.

It is a really social place so even if you aren't involved in a ministry there for that evening, there's always someone to chat to. I am so thankful for the friendships we have been able to build quickly as it is such an encouragement and support in a new place and it is always good to have people to cheer you up and make you smile when it hasn't been so easy.

Kate and I have joined the Christmas and youth choir, which has been good for getting to know more people. I am looking forward to the Christmas cantata performance next month. We get to dress up in floor length dresses whilst the men men in suits, so it should be a fun formal occasion and a great way to celebrate the birth of Jesus. Kate and I have been practising learning the songs in Luganda together to make sure we get the words right.

We have been going to both the Saturday Bible study and youth service, which Kate and I sing at, as well as the Sunday morning service when we can. It has been lovely to meet up with Nikki, a friend from my home church on Sunday, who is also working in Kampala.

Everyone at church is full of such faith and joy, which is a real blessing for us.


Youth and students at Thank God It's Friday
(I'm in the pink t shirt on the far right|)


Good friends at church- Kate and I with Emma and Reagan

Transport...

One of the things that I immediately found was a shock to the system when I arrived in Uganda was the transport system. It is one thing to be told of crazy driving and another thing to experience it.
Here in Kampala, there are two main types of public transport: the taxi and the boda boda.

 The taxi is like what we would call a minibus in the UK but licensed to carry fourteen passengers and a lot less serene. In the local language, it is called a matatu. My first experience of a taxi was on the way to church on our second day here and it was an interesting experience to say the least. At that point, I still had my English mind set of ‘health and safety’ drummed into my mind. So you can imagine the thoughts going through my mind when I realised shortly after getting in that the driver was driving on the wrong side of the road to overtake about three other taxis and then stopping to load on more passengers so there were over twenty of us instead of the licensed fourteen. Poor Kate was even sat on! We have also learnt how to manoeuver our way out of the taxi wearing skirts and learnt to be patient when you have to get out of the taxi for the twentieth time on the same journey to let other passengers out. I like to call them ‘work out’ journeys.

Taxi rank in Kampala


 The more unique form of transport is the ‘boda boda’, which is best described as a motorcycle taxi that you hail in the same way as a taxi. There are thousands in Kampala because they are the quickest and most direct way of transport around the city as they are able to weave in and out of traffic jams and you can be driven straight to your destination. It seems they can dodge any kind of obstacle in their way! Whereas, in a taxi you have to pass the stops of all of the other passengers and then perhaps have to walk a short way too.


Those of you who know me know that I’m not the biggest fan of fast moving things like rollercoasters and I’d never been on a motorbike before coming here so I was quite nervous about my first ‘boda boda’ ride. Thankfully, it was on the hill up the Smile house on the way back from church rather than on the busy main roads so I’m surprised to say that I actually quite liked it. Thank you to Anna Strain for sharing one with me and going on the back so I wasn’t afraid of falling off the back. We have to get on bodas to get to Ruth Mother Care School on Tuesday and Wednesday so I am slowly getting used to the experience and have gone on one on my own. I’ve never held onto anything so tightly as the back of the boda whilst going up a hill or down a ditch but maybe by the end of my time here, I’ll be an expert boda passenger!!

Boda bodas

Typical street in Kampala


Unusual/interesting l things I have noticed….

-          The names of businesses have a personal feel to them more so than anywhere else I’ve been and often attach some religious identity to them, for example I have seen God Bless Salons and Immaculate Heart Kindergarten. My favourite name for an organisation or business however has to be the Lion King nursery.


-          Similarly, the taxis also have a personal identity as they each have a word or phrase painted on the front windscreen, for example ‘God bless’, ‘Praise the Lord’ or ‘Manchester United’ and ‘Harry Potter.’ I think it’s an original way to display something about yourself in public.

Taxi windscreens

-          Power cuts aren’t so bad if you try to make them fun! We are very lucky that the Smile house has a generator that we are allowed to use sometimes but we have had a few power cuts in the evening. They’ve involved learning to cook with a head torch and having deep chats over hot chocolate in the dark because all our electrical devices have ran out of battery. 


-          What I have heard about ‘African time’ is true. It's teaching me to be patient because if you are told to be ready at a certain time, you won’t necessarily be leaving then. In a way, it's quite freeing! You could be leaving a few hours later or even earlier so please bear with me if you’re trying to organise a Skype session time.
 

-          If you like animals like goats and chickens, here is the place to come! We encounter lots of roaming goats on the hill from our house to the road and I shared a long taxi journey with a chicken on the seat next to me the other day. Lois even tried to adopt a kitten the other day and Kate is determined to catch a chick at some point.

Goats on the road






Where we live

The Smile house where we are living is in a suburb of Kampala called Nansana. It is set back
from the main road up a hill, which gives it a more rural feel even though we are in the capital city as it is about a twenty minute walk. I love green spaces and am used to living in leafy Buckinghamshire so I am grateful for that. Walking up and down the hill everyday also makes me feel less guilty about all the amazing food I'm eating!!

On the way up the hill to the Smile house

Kate and Gabit walking home

  


  
We climbed through the hatch because we lost the key to the door



The Smile courtyard



Thank you for your continued prayers and support. It makes such a difference to us. Please pray for:

- Our health as Kate and I have had flu in the past week.

-The Christmas parties we will be running for the children at Family Believers and Blessed Word churches in the next few weeks.

-Our plans for the Christmas period as we wrap up our work on the projects for a few weeks.
-Safety in the Christmas season as we travel



 Some people have been asking for my address, so I thought I'd put it on my blog so it's easy to find. Thank you to everyone who has asked! :



Smile Charity Uganda
PO BOX 5895
Kampala
Uganda

Love from Uganda x